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Friday, December 7, 2012

Why Ask Why?


I recently cut all of my hair off (again) because that’s how I like it. But I keep getting the same question from my friends and family which is probably the same question burning the lips of almost every person that stares at me when I pass them by WHY? But my question is WHY NOT?
I have said this before and I will say it again I am not my hair! Hair does not define who I am as a woman, a mother, a daughter, as a sister or a friend. It does not shape my personality or mold me into who I am destined to become. My hair length and texture won’t determine my class and status in society, it may make me more “acceptable” in some people’s eyes but I am not looking for their acceptance.
I know who I am and who I want to be and believe me society plays no role and has no say so. I am going to continue to love my me and what makes me who I am. Whoever does not like it…oh well. Take it to someone who is willing to listen because it definitely is not me.